You really can go back
It was umpteen years ago on beautiful Walloon Lake in northern Michigan, and my family, consisting at that time of parents, sibling, cousins, and grandparents, was lazing at the end of a white dock stretching into the turquoise lake with its rocky edges and sandy bottom. It's a memory that has always lived vividly in my mind, and will do so even more now that we have been back and made good on the belief that it is possible to reclaim those times from the past. The key to success in going back, of course, is understanding that it doesn't mean erasing time, but embracing it. We missed those who are no longer with us, but enjoyed seeing each successive generation step into their waiting roles. The baby sleeping upstairs was not Curtis, it was Calvin, and the man enjoying scotch and cigar at the end of the dock wasn't our uncle, it was Curtis. Oh how time does fly.
Our time there was limited by work demands at home, but we thoroughly enjoyed the four days we had by packing them as full as possible (For the photo journal of our trip go to the Lake Vacation album. Click on thumbnails for bigger pictures, and now you can click on the bigger pictures for even bigger pictures):
Saturday, August 9: 9am Meet at the Hiller homestead, pack cars, load people, head north. 10am Hit construction, slow to a crawl, realize that construction is an enjoyable diversion when traveling with a 2 year old. 11am Make obligatory stop at Birch Run Outlet Mall, buy sunglasses and Osh Kosh clothes, enjoy lunch and floats at the A&W. 3pm Arrive at cottage on Walloon Lake in high winds but beautiful sunshine. Unpack cars. Enjoy watching the whitecaps on the rough lake from the dock while getting soaked by spray before going back inside to read before dinner (kabobs on the grill). 8pm Make last minute after dinner decision to dash into town to view the sunset over Little Traverse Bay from Sunset Park in Petoskey. 9pm Return home to watch the Olympics.
Sunday, Aug 10: 8am Wake up to sunny but still slightly windy and chilly weather. Grandpa, Curtis, and Cortney all go running (the hills are killer). Curtis and Cortney end their run with a jump in the still wild lake to the backdrop of boaters wearing sweatshirts and ski hats. 10am Calvin tries the lake, but the air is just a bit too chilly, so we play in the hammock and with the toys and books we brought while Gram attends a high school reunion style luncheon. 1pm The whole entourage makes a shopping trip into town, followed by naps (mostly) all around. 4pm Extended family (cousin Polly, her husband Justin, Uncle Smokey, and Godmother Lonnie) begin arriving for dinner. 6pm we all enjoy a dinner of steaks and corn on the patio. 7pm Curtis, Patty, Calvin, Jon, and Cortney go with Polly and Justin to their nearby ranch and enjoy some ring riding time.
Monday, Aug 11: 7am Cortney runs alone and opts out of the post run plunge though the day has dawned sunny, calm, and warm. 9am The whole entourage packs in the van and heads to Alanson for a relaxing boat ride through the Crooked River and into Burt Lake (we had originally planned to motor through the locks on the river, but the locks just happened to be closed that of all days for maintenance). 11am After said relaxing ride we enter Burt Lake and motor straight across toward the very small public dock that is our landing for lunch at Hoppies, our favorite "local" frequented bar that happens to be easier to reach by boat than by car. 12pm Finally locate said dock (it's practically unmarked and you have to know what you are looking for) and descend upon Hoppies for beer, burgers, and video games (and a view of the race winning outhouse) before heading back out onto the lake to enjoy the sunshine. 2pm Locate sandbar and anchor for swimming and sunning. 3pm Weigh anchor and head for home, with Calvin assisting the captain (Uncle Curtis) as soon as the boat is moving at a snails' pace in the river. It was also about this time that Calvin discovered the "slow no wake" signs and also discovered how funny people thought he was when he read them as "sloooooooow noooooooooo waaaaaaaaaaaaake." 6pm Arrive back at the cottage to enjoy a relaxing evening and sunset on the dock.
Tuesday, Aug 12: 7am Cortney and Grandpa go out running but again opt out of the post rung plunge. The day is even warmer, calmer, and sunnier than the day before even though the forecast called for incoming clouds and storms. 9am Cortney "sights" said incoming storms and calls for everyone to get out and enjoy the day while they still can. Most of the entourage grabs some coffee and heads for the dock while grandpa cooks bacon for breakfast (yum). 11am Still sunny and now much warmer, the whole entourage dons suits and grabs towels to take further advantage of the beautiful weather before the storms come in. 1pm Still sunny, everyone, now including Lonnie, grabs margaritas, chips, guacamole, crackers, and pate for lunch out on the dock in order to take advantage of the weather that is still holding, believe it or not. 4pm Not a cloud in sight so we all decide that enough sun is enough sun and head in for some naps and Olympics. 6pm Now refreshed we head back out for a relaxing dinner on the dock, followed by a sunset swim in the warm lake. 10pm Back inside we watch the Olympics before bed. What a wonderful (stormy?) day!
Wednesday, Aug 12: 7am No running this morning, instead we get up to pack and enjoy one last walk out on the dock, one last swing in the hammock, and one last vacation style breakfast. 9am We spot two mink, possibly juveniles, running and playing on the dock. One leaves, but the other stays to eat a crayfish. He is not too worried about us and allows Cortney to get close enough to grab some good pictures, even giving her a quizzical and photogenic look from only five feet away on the boat lift when she ventures out to the dock end. 10am The storms that never came yesterday suddenly arrive with thunder and rain just as we are carrying things out to the cars. 11am We hit the road, headed for lunch in Gaylord before making the rest of the trek home. Again we say it has been a wonderful trip! Thanks to Gram and Grandpa for the wonderful idea, for securing the cottage and the boat, and for all the wonderful food and drink. Thanks to Aunt Patty and Uncle Curtis for taking the time to be there. Thanks to Calvin for some pretty phenomenal behavior.
Making a big splash
Playing in the sprinkler in our own yard was really starting to be old hat, so today we opted for sprinkler play on a larger scale at the Independence Lake Splash Zone, where we joined our friends Julie and Tyler for some swim time and a picnic lunch. I clearly remember visits to Independence lake when I was growing up, if not with classes or camps on a picnics, then in post driving license days with high school friends, but in all that time there was never anything more attention grabbing than the occassional lighter fluid induced, several feet high, charcoal fire. Now the park, in addition to its kid friendly beach and various picnic and grilling locations, has a rather large and adventurous new splash zone. It's probably meant to appeal to the younger crowd, specifically the Calvin types who are not yet at swimming age and cannot fully enjoy the lake, but I know I really enjoyed running through the bubbling fountains and misting sprayers myself. Calvin had a grand time running in and out, exclaiming "wheeee" with every dousing dash, and, upon noticing the lake ("that water over there") also enjoyed dashing after fish and practicing his swimming stroke (with a supportive mommy hand, of course). This is definitely an outing that we will have to repeat before the season end is upon us.
More Pictures in the August 2008 Album.
Gathering together
For those of you who have yet to discover the benefits of facebook, the free online community often referred to as the intellectuals' myspace, here's one possible side effect of joining that may not come to mind - a house full of people you haven't seen in nearly fifteen years. At least, that was the result for us. After having resisted any form of web networking for many years, we both finally joined the facebook world shortly after our trip to Iowa. Our excuse at the time was photo sharing with other wedding guests, but in no time at all we found ourselves instantly connected to people we had been out of touch with for more years than we care to count or admit. Then tonight, only a few months later, we hosted a real life reunion with some of my friends from high school. In all, eleven former Pioneer High graduates, some with their spouses and some with their children, gathered at our home for grilled sausages and potluck styled side dishes and drinks. If we were worried, as the first guests arrived shortly before four, about the strain that thirteen years of absence can put on young friendships, those fears had long since been put to rest when we saw the last out the door just before midnight. The conversation came easily, the food disapeared quickly, the kids played together happily, and the laughter flowed freely, especially when we passed around the old yearbooks. It was an absolutely wonderful evening of rebuilding old connections with more modern and up-to-date wiring. Don't at all think of this as a plug for the facebook community, but if any of you decide you just might like to host your own small reunion sometime soon, look us up when you join.